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Thursday, 27 June 2013

Write from Day 1, WHAT? Day 1? Are you kidding me?


 

Assaalamualaikum & Hello all,

Based on the books I have read on writing a thesis or doing a PhD, the authors unanimously agreed that writing is the toughest challenge for any candidate. Majority of the authors urged that we should start writing from Day 1. I was perplexed when I read this “How is it possible to write from the very first day?” I asked myself, “What should I write?” In fact, the same advice is thrown to me in most of the workshops I attended. My Supervisors did not expect me to write from the first day though, I remember them mentioning about reading and reading and more reading. 

In my 2nd (or 3rd) month I started to worry “I have not written anything”, what have I been doing for the past two (three) months” and that’s when the Thesis Panic (as mentioned by Dr Inger Mewburn, The Thesis Whisperer) kicked in. I know I have been reading but I don’t see any of that since I don’t write anything. So I begin summarizing the journals I have read. The panic subsided when I started reading the summaries and as my Word Document file size increased.  But another question popped-up “What’s next?” I can’t go on writing summaries forever can I? 

Another episode of panic struck. Oh dear!!  I need an action plan. Mayday! Mayday!

I decided to categorize the summaries into similar topic/heading and then merging them into a piece of writing with paragraphs since the summaries are all in table format. Ah! Good idea I thought to myself. I started with 2 pages of summary on Customer Loyalty, my very first piece of writing. I emailed the document to my Supervisors and they thought that it is a good way of building my literature. I suppose I did something right (even though the quality is nothing near ‘academic writing’ standard). 


From then onwards, I developed a habit of writing and even though some of the documents will not go into my final thesis, I am really ok with that. What’s more important is I ‘obeyed’ to the advice to write from Day 1 (though I didn’t literally write from Day 1). 

As time goes by, the small pieces of writing I have done aided me in preparing the Confirmation of Candidature (CoC) document or the Research Proposal. Therefore, none of the work I have done is wasted. Admittedly, I have to make changes, restructure the sentences and also do some re-writing however I am glad I started from the very beginning. I believe in years to come, my academic writing quality will improve because through writing, we improve the way we think and become more critical about the subject we are writing. 

Thank You for reading

Miss F

Thursday, 20 June 2013

Single VS Double



 

Assalamualaikum & Hello All

This post might instigate endless debacle among us, some might agree and maybe more would disagree but I am just writing to justify my side of the story.

So I am single and doing my PhD. It’s a little displeasing when I hear people say “Ah, it is much easier for you since you are single”. I just smiled and normally reserve my comments. After a while my brain starts analyzing because the ‘little displeasing’ has become more than little. If it is true that it is easier for us Singles, I am one happy GIRL. 

For me, PhD takes a lot of hard work, determination and it really pushes you to the edge (whether you are single or married or a single parent). We all face different set of challenges throughout the journey. In my defense, I would say that it is the same for everyone for several reasons:

1)      For singles like me, there’s no constant 24-7 support compared to married students (they have their spouse by their side to support them). No doubt my parents, friends are my biggest supporters but they are NOT here with me

2)      I have to do everything (cooking, cleaning, laundry, grocery shopping, change the light bulb, pay the bills etc.) by myself. I don’t have the luxury of asking my spouse to do it for me (or even help me with it).

3)      When I am down, I rely on my support group friends for comforting words, suggesting possible solutions and help me get back on track. It is great but I have to bear in mind that they have problems too and it is unfair to take everything from them. Most of all, they are struggling with their PhD too.

These are not my excuses but this is my opinion. I just feel that such comment does not make sense at all. I have met someone single and finished her PhD is 5 years and a married lady who was doing her PhD part-time but managed to finish in 3 years. Even better, there’s another married lady with 3 young kids, did PhD part-time and finish is 2.5 years. 

 
Don’t get me wrong, I respect each and every one of us because we are brave and we want to better ourselves by embarking in this journey. My point is, we all have our advantages and disadvantages; most of all it depends on us on what to make of our journey. I can be single but lazy and unable to finish in 3 years and on the other hand there might be a married student who has to juggle family and study and able to finish on time. 

To conclude, no matter what our status, we are bound to encounter challenges along the way and the challenges come in various shapes and sizes. What’s more important is to persevere, manage time well, work really hard and enjoy the fruit of your labor after 3 years.

P.S. Relationship status is not a barrier that should hinder us from being fabulous & amazing :)  

 

 Thank You for reading

Miss F