The first few steps (probably the most important ones)

Assalamualaikum & Hello all

A million steps always start with the first one. True indeed. I still remember my baby steps when I first arrived in Melbourne. I was very lucky as my BFF and her family is in Melbourne too at that time. So, they were in charge of the ‘orientation’. Alhamdulillah 

Pic: The very last view of Penang (300612)

I met my 1^st Supervisor on my 4^th day in Melbourne. What an eager beaver, LOL. We discussed basic issues such as frequency of meeting, research timeline and also my research topic. At that time I was still adjusting to the blistering cold winter. I had a lot on my plate, literally. Imagine starting a new life (all over again), being home sick and etc. Not an easy thing to do (especially at the age where you are complacent and kind of stable). But I am determined to settle down in a short time (eager beaver, again). 

 Pic: In-flight meal on board MH129 (KUL-MEL)

Let me share some of the most important rules I applied when I started my journey in Melbourne

Rule #1

Be mindful of the intention- TO STUDY, TO COMPLETE A PhD

I am truly blessed to have been reminded about my mission before I arrive in Melbourne. A colleague told me “pi mengaji elok-elok, jangan dok lupa niat tu” (TRANSLATION: Never forget your most important intention- TO STUDY). It might seem petty but, it is a BIG reminder for me. I am definitely thankful for that. Whenever I feel demotivated, I always reset my intention and get back on track and just keep going.

Pic: The first pic taken at AGSE Building

Rule #2

Change your mindset

For someone with a career and at a rather complacent stage in life, it is a challenge to change your mindset about the new life you are about to start. It is a known fact that student with overseas scholarship are expected to live below poverty line especially in Australia. Rent is charged on a weekly basis, transportation is not cheap, groceries cost a fortune and the list goes on. I’m not the type who goes shopping every month, but I spoil myself with Spa and food on a regular basis. I would splurge on handbags, shoes and clothes at least twice (or more) a year. 

Pic: The BA Building a.k.a My new office from The Glenferrie Park

The newly acquired status (student) would restrict me from enjoying some of the things I do regularly. Instead of enjoying food in the restaurant, I have to cook my food and instead of spending money on handbags and shoes, I save for the rainy days. It is not a big sacrifice because I know this is just temporary. I think this is what prioritizing means. 

To be continued

Thank You for reading

Miss F